This Bride Wants Your Opinion!
May 26, 2007

Amy, a bride out of Liberty, Miss., writes in with a dilemma: "After coming to this page day after day and looking at the torture these poor girls were put through with these hideous dresses, I can't help but wonder: Will my bridesmaids hate me after my wedding in August of this year? I THINK the dresses I picked out are cute, but so did all of the other brides on this site. Please help me make my day beautiful and not just a bad memory!"
We think the dresses are sweet and perfect for an August wedding, so you tell us – what do you think of her bridesmaids' gowns?

Jennifer | Jul 16, 2007 9:37:13 PM
HOORAY I LOVE THIS DRESS! it is the same dress and color i am using for my bridesmaids!
Moppy | Jun 22, 2007 5:32:54 PM
OK, 1st..does it have a mesh overlay. 2nd seriously a bow under the boobs on adults. NO! I had to wear a similar to this in a wedding this past April. I'm chuncky & top heavy too. So this dress was awful on me. I was ok on the skinny girls with small chest. JUST NO NO NO NO NO!!!! I saw several people posted it could be wore again & no you can't wear again. JUST NO.
Petra | Jun 21, 2007 1:57:44 PM
One more cheesy Bridesmaid dress! Why can't people choose dresses that are classic and elegant, without it actually looking like a dress that you will ONLY wear because you have to!
Sorry, sad but true!
Karoline | Jun 21, 2007 1:23:35 PM
I think the dress is beautiful. Coral is definitely the summer's hot color! Honestly, go with what YOU like, because the truth is, no matter what you pick, someone will be unhappy. You simply can't please everyone. Remember, it's YOUR day!
Andrea | Jun 20, 2007 10:11:52 PM
I think the dress is adorable..it is very trendy (tea-length) and it can be worn again!
Robin | Jun 20, 2007 12:19:27 PM
I think the entire dress (cut and style) is perfect for a summer wedding. The color (coral - NOT orange) is really pretty and actually would suit almost all skin tones regardless of what others may have posted. Great choice!
Denise | Jun 19, 2007 6:14:34 PM
I love the design of the dress, But I have the same hair color and skin type and that color dress doesn't really look as good on us as it does the doll. Also if you have girls over a size 10 in your wedding the hip area may be a little "over the sides" If you know what I mean. I'm a size 12 and now but I was suppose to be in my friends wedding she picked a dress like this one and you could see where my "Top Butt" met my actually but. What we did was got each girl a different color that worked with thier body type but kept the design, my color was a light blue.
Laura | Jun 19, 2007 4:15:04 PM
I think the dress is very cute. I think it might be a little better without the bow, but that also does add a little something to an otherwise plain dress. I think the cut is just fine & it's a good cut if you have bigger girls in your party as that style is very forgiving. It would also be a nice dress in either black or navy (depending on the time of day of the wedding). If it's a day wedding, I think the color is just fine.
mishka | Jun 19, 2007 1:11:30 PM
Hrm, the cut could be ok if all your maids have that Sim's body time in the photo, but I would probably go with a different color...like black :) (then again black is my favorite color). Honestly, there just isn't enough info to really make a good comment, i.e. what is the skintone of your bridesmaids and will they end up burnt/tanned by August? In my opinion, best to stay with safe colors that will allow them to wear the dress again.
Natalie | Jun 19, 2007 2:30:34 AM
It is not practical at all - your bridesmaids will NEVER wear this dress again - not only becauase of the color ( and I LOVE orange/coral) but the cut is horrid. You are not serious.
krissy | Jun 18, 2007 10:33:09 PM
I think the dress is cute. The most important thing is that everyone feels comfortable and attractive in it. Anyone who feels like the dress draws attention to her flaws won't appreciate wearing it. As long as you notice your bridesmaids checking out their butts and and legs and being pleased, you know you've made a good choice. Sucking in is always a sign of not feeling comfortable.
shera | Jun 18, 2007 1:21:08 PM
I think it is adorable. Love the color and cute cut. I am 26 and getting married soon, I think it will fit many different body shapes as well.
Katy | Jun 18, 2007 7:24:27 AM
Sorry dear - I think the color and cut is hideous
kia | Jun 16, 2007 4:06:10 PM
It looks too much like a bridesmaids dress. Step outside the box and pick something that they can wear again. It's better than having five dresses in your closet you can't wear any where else.
LESLIE | Jun 15, 2007 4:16:52 PM
I love the dress!! When I got married last year this was my favorite but one of my bridesmaids has a Tigger tattoo on her calf (tacky, I know!) and the lenght of that dress would show it!! So, I decided against!! Like I said, I love the dress but you may wanna rethink the color!! That is a hard color to pull off!!
Christina Robinson | Jun 15, 2007 3:50:35 PM
I think that everyone is going to have an opinion you can't please all the people all of the time so you really need to think about what is going to make you happy it is of course your day and if your friends are true friends they will wear whatever you have chosen for them because they love you that much to realize it is all about you. I think the dresses are beautifuland wish you the best of luck on your day. GOD Bless
Kelly | Jun 15, 2007 3:38:55 PM
I think the dress.
I myself am curvy and this dress seems to help slender you.
I think it was a good choice and I love coral.
Amanda | Jun 15, 2007 1:57:36 PM
Love the dress-- it seem perfect no matter what the body type of your bridal party, but honey! Orange!!! YECH!
Lish | Jun 15, 2007 1:52:55 PM
I think the best idea is to pick a color, material, and length of dress and let the girls pick which dress fits their body type the best.
It looks great in the pictures that way and adds a bit of character to an event that normally ends up looking too uniform.
Theresa | Jun 14, 2007 2:47:39 PM
I don't like the dress or the color. It's the same old bridesmaid dress I see all the time. This is just my opinion and everybody has one. In the end your decision will be the only one that counts.
bambi | Jun 13, 2007 8:56:37 PM
i wore this dress for my sisters wedding in may of 06 the dress is great for all body types. so good luck
diana | Jun 13, 2007 3:57:48 PM
i am getting married this year too and i know how stressfull it is to be a bride that is why i suggest that you should talk to your bridesmais about the dress and give them the chance to decide what kind of dress they would like to wear... they have to wear the dress so they should have a saying!!
ashley | Jun 12, 2007 2:49:55 PM
do not like the color and the dress really looks like a child's dress, doesnt look like it would flatter a woman's body. but if you like it that is what matters! good luck!
stacie | Jun 12, 2007 1:12:53 PM
I like the style of the dress, but HATE the color!
JoJo Silverlock | Jun 11, 2007 10:45:21 PM
Wow...orange is such a terrible color for most complexions. I am personally quite pale and orange makes my skin look like mud. It's also a difficult size for a variety of size. The length is nice on YOU, but it would look terrible on ME..I'm short. And then there's the spaghetti straps...this are going to be very difficult for any full-figured gals. My suggestion? Maybe pick a more neutral color for your gals and have them pick their own style. Congrats on your upcoming nuptials, by the way! It's really thoughtful you actually ASKED for opinions! I think you might end up with a much happier wedding party!
denise | Jun 11, 2007 1:23:43 PM
i like the dress, but only for young jr. bridesmaids i know girls who had to wear this, and they all hated them, but it is very cute for young girls, but for woman, not so hot....
Krystal | Jun 11, 2007 11:27:16 AM
I used this dress in my September 2006 wedding. However I used it on my junior bridesmaids who were both 14. I tried it on my maid of honor first and right away knew it was not for a grown woman but for a young adult or teenager. Maybe pick something that doesn't look like a prom dress or maybe just pick a color and let the bridesmaids pick the style they want. Trust me it does look good!
Missy | Jun 10, 2007 9:58:51 PM
This dress is terrible.....please do not put your friends through the misery of wearing this dress. Pick a color and let them choose the style they like the best for themselves. Once your wedding is over none of the things that you thought were SUPER IMPORTANT (such as all of the girls who are competely different body types wearing the same exact dress) turn out to be not important at all. Keep in mind that someone does have to spend their probably hard earned money on a dress that they are most likely going to hate and never wear again. Let them chose what looks best on them, you'll get the color you want, and they will get a dress that they are comfortable in.
nardone | Jun 9, 2007 2:34:49 PM
oh gosh I am getting married this year in September 2007. I do not like the color sweetie looks like a prom dress or something that a little kids would wear.
Nicole, Queens NY
Dee | Jun 8, 2007 3:46:23 PM
The dress looks like it is for a very young girl. Also big busted women couldnt pull it off.
Jessica | Jun 8, 2007 1:16:49 PM
I am looking at this dress and a dress just like this one for my wedding but in green, i sent pictures to my bridesmaids and invited them to go to the store and try them on if the wanted to...they all loved it! Good choice!
Happy Planning!
LaLa | Jun 8, 2007 12:59:30 PM
I commented before that it would not look good on a large breasted woman because I AM one. I am a 36DD & at best that bow would be UNDERNEATH my girls. I have never been able to even fit my girls into a dress that style without looking cheap. Pam Anderson style dressing I choose not! Do I wish I could look ok in a dress like this - yes - but we all can't have what we want :)
sheley | Jun 8, 2007 12:35:52 AM
I tried on a dress like this for a wedding and I was so happy when we did not choose it...it is very hard for people, other than models, to pull off a tea-length dress. Also, I think spaghetti straps are totally unflattering. My favorite wedding party dresses are those that are coordinated: pick a color from one store and have the bridesmaids choose the style they're most comfortable in.
Brenda | Jun 7, 2007 12:04:33 PM
My friend is getting married in July and we tried this dress on, in green. Once we had it on we all felt like a bunch of little girls with the big bow in the middle of our stomachs. My advice to you is to get a new dress.
Joan | Jun 7, 2007 11:14:01 AM
I just wore that exact same dress in a wedding I was in just a different color. The entire bridal party ranged from 5' to 6' and we all had them all hemmed to t-length for the individual person and they were beautiful and very comfortable. All the bridesmaids were very happy with the dresses and the guests thought they were gorgeous... Good choice!
Jean | Jun 7, 2007 6:57:33 AM
Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials.
The bridesmaids dress on the other hand is so basic.
I'm sure you can do better. You want something special not a colour-blinding- simple frocks for your maids.
Laura | Jun 6, 2007 4:44:30 PM
One of my bridesmaids had that exact same dress but in apple red, for a spring wedding. She's 6' and it landed half-way down her calf... it's definitely not a dress for the short people... my sister is 5' and it was floor length on her. Cute dress though!
Angel | Jun 6, 2007 12:24:04 PM
First of all, it's a beautiful dress for spring, but the straps and small sash doesn't really fit the late summer/autumn season. In my opinion, it would be better as a strapless dress, with a wider sash of a contrasting, more fall-like color.
Melissa | Jun 5, 2007 6:16:30 PM
Amy: I am getting married in October of this year and find the dress you pick out to be simular to mine. From one bride to another you did awsome!!! Congrats!!!
Leah Wright | Jun 5, 2007 4:10:49 PM
I had this same color for my bridesmaids in my wedding this April. But I had another style. They all loved it. It was something that they could wear again. I had the only dress that was burnt orange. Look at it if you get a chance.
Necia | Jun 5, 2007 3:58:15 PM
The style and cute of the dress is very nice, and can be used for other occasions later on - but the color is hideous! why can't brides ever just go for a nice, classic color - you will look back 10 years from now and cringe at the thought of orange bridesmaid dresses!
ashley | Jun 5, 2007 3:34:36 PM
Also remember the length on it. Not everyone is the same height and with it be a tea length it doesn't hit everyone just right. I tried it on and it looked horrible on me. I have short legs and I am a little wide around the hips. It was horrible. You would have to get the length adjusted for each person and it might not come out looking right. I don't like the color but if its the color you want for your wedding then go for it. If you have any pale girls then it probably won't look good.
Roberta | Jun 5, 2007 3:28:36 PM
The dress is a sweet color. I just hope that you don't have any girls that have a large bust. I would loose the straps and add different shoes also.
Terri | Jun 5, 2007 2:49:10 PM
The dress is cute. I agree...loose the straps. Also, if you have semi-plus sized/plus sized bridesmaids, the high waist with the bow will make them look uneven, and unattractive. Just something to think about!
Crystal | Jun 5, 2007 12:19:38 PM
This dress is cute. I would lose the straps.
Bee | Jun 5, 2007 10:01:41 AM
loose the straps - that will make it more suited to grown women and make the dress look alot more elegant.... the straps just remind me of little flowergirl dresses and which bridesmaid wants to look like a 10 year old girl.
giselle | Jun 5, 2007 9:47:01 AM
I wore a dress just like that one for a wedding I was in last year. is it from david's bridal?
Lisa | Jun 4, 2007 2:45:08 PM
Funny how it is pretty much brides on here saying how wonderful the dress was and how her bridesmaids loved it, but the bridesmaids aren’t saying the same thing.
In all of the weddings I’ve been in the bride has either been a terror about the dresses (including my sister, although once you took the bows off the sleeves we could wear them again because they were custom made from a beautiful fabric) or the bride has been so frazzled that no one wanted to say anything negative about the dresses because they don’t want to hurt her feelings. Well, that and that the dresses aren’t so bad that we would look like we were from that Greek wedding movie, even if we would throw them out after the wedding.
The best wedding I’ve been in was for a friend’s semi-formal summer wedding on Tahoe’s Northshore. Since she lived there and most of us lived four hours away in the Bay Area she sent us colour swatches in a wide range of shades of periwinkle, lavender, green and blue, told us the location and style of the wedding then told to go out and find our own dresses, with the bride obviously having the final say. She wasn’t a bridezilla so everyone ended up wearing her first pick (for those of us who had picked out three dresses we wanted to wear the stress was on us, not on the bride). When the photos of the wedding were handed around when the bride wasn’t there, the comments were positive and the sweetest was a woman who said that the bride looked like she was the center of a flower because the colours showcased her so beautifully, and the bridesmaids looked pretty too.
Kerry | Jun 4, 2007 12:10:15 PM
The dress looks like a typical bridesmaids dress that the girls will wear for your wedding and it will hang in the closet forever or go to Goodwill. It's not a bad dress, but there's nothing special about it. Department stores like Dillard's and Macy's have beautiful dresses that can be worn again and aren't so basic. Also, they will have many sizes and can get any size from another store anywhere in the country. The dress prices are very reasonable too.
Ann | Jun 4, 2007 9:45:18 AM
I am a wedding planner and I have seen alot of terrible bridesmaids dresses in some awful colors. Yours is not one of them. I actually had a bride that had similar dresses in that very color is mid September! It was fabulous! Try to keep in mind the sizes of your girls and their skin tones before 100% settling on the dress. Make sure they are all comfortable with what they have to where. I had to wear a dress that I was not comfortable in for my sisters wedding. She would not budge. Remember to keep your bridemaids comfort level in mind. The way they look in those dresses will be captured forever on Kodak...you want them to like how they are going to look!
Lacey | Jun 2, 2007 5:36:39 PM
I had picked this dress out as well in a light blue with white bow. I loved the dress.
Monika | Jun 2, 2007 2:08:30 PM
It is a really nice dress.
It is simple and elegant and perfect for a wedding in august. The color is fabulous and would look good against your white dress in the pictures. Hope you have the weeding of your dreams ;0)
emily | Jun 1, 2007 9:42:56 PM
I had a very similar dress, but in black, for my August wedding last summer. Everyone loved it, and the best part is that the dress is so classically simple that my maid of honor could actually wear it more than once. Definitely a needed departure from the stereotypical dreaded bridesmaid dress that is expensive, worn for an evening, and then takes up space in the back of your closet until you finally give it away!
Avital | Jun 1, 2007 5:49:27 PM
I just want you to know that not only do I think that the dress you picked out is beautiful in terms of both style and color, but also, stop worrying about everyone else! I personally never understood why people make such a big deal over the bridesmaid's dresses- why does what the bridesmaids where matter when it's their friend's wedding, not theres? What's the worst that can happen, honestly?!?!
Just enjoy your wedding and your husband and don't worry!
Avital
Jenn | Jun 1, 2007 4:03:19 PM
I am getting married next weekend and my BM are wearing this dress as well.I have girls ranging from size 4 to 24 and all of them have said they really like the way the dress fits them. I think it's a great pick!
trecia | Jun 1, 2007 3:53:56 PM
I like the dress,just not with the bow or that color.
Try red, burgandy or green, definitely not orange. If someone in your wedding wears plus size they could look like an orange.
Connie | Jun 1, 2007 2:35:04 PM
It's your wedding and as you can see, everyone has their own opinion. Be strong, pick what you like and the color you like. The overall look and feel of your wedding will shine through with all the details, not just the dresses, setting the mood. Most important - have fun at your wedding, your guests, ushers, and maids will only remember how you looked if they are true family and friends.
Good luck,
Connie
Kristine | Jun 1, 2007 12:36:46 PM
I think the dress is cute. However, if any of your bridesmaids are over a size 7 or past their early 20's I don't think the dress would be flattering to them. The empire waist makes overweight people look pregnant most of the time and I doubt any bridesmaid would thank you for that. Also the bow makes it a very young dress.
Jill | Jun 1, 2007 2:36:45 AM
Hi there,
I think that the colour and the cut of the dress is nice and sweet. I don't think you can go far wrong with this dress.
Regards,
Jill
leann | May 31, 2007 10:41:28 PM
i wore that exact dress in my friends wedding except it was in peridot *spelling8 (light green)....and i hated it!!! you will never wear that dress again and it looks like a 12 year old would wear it!!!! and that was one of the reasons she made all of us suffer....because her little sister was in the wedding!!!! DONT DO IT!! it really isnt that cute on also!
Aimee | May 31, 2007 5:40:24 PM
I got married in September and my girls, all different shapes and sizes wore this exact dress in red and they loved it. I had them pick the dress. I think its perfect, a few of my girls have worn the dress again for other events.
Sheri | May 31, 2007 4:18:13 PM
I hope that you have no overweight people. I would not look good in that dress. Because I am chubby, I do not wear sleeveless anything!
Ann | May 31, 2007 2:36:05 PM
I wore this dress in sage, HATED IT! I am normally a size 12 and I had to buy a 16...it looked awful on all of us.
Gina | May 31, 2007 2:01:48 PM
I dont know if you got this dress of off Davids Bridal...however I got my bridesmaid dresses from there and it was the exact same dress, in red. I was married last August. I had seven bridesmaids from sizes 2 to 22 and they all loved the dress, found it comfortable, and it fit each of them very nicely. I saw comments from people saying it would make big breasted woman or large woman look bad, but once it's on, each size looked very nice.
Lala | May 31, 2007 1:23:58 PM
This dress will NOT look good on a large breasted woman.
melba | May 31, 2007 11:57:59 AM
Hi...hope all is well...the most beautiful bridesmaids I ever saw had on approximately the same color and each dress was different..the point being that each body is different and each personality is different and everyone truly does not look good in the same exact dress...it was truly lovely.
Tiffany | May 31, 2007 12:19:47 AM
Congrats to you, hope you will have fun at your wedding.
I think this dress will look prettier without the strap, like someone had mentioned, this color is kind of weird, maybe green will stand out
Veronica | May 30, 2007 2:02:43 PM
I personally like the dress. I think you should get rid of the bow though. Because it may make some bridesmaid who have a little weight on them look pregnant and that's never a good thing. But other than that it's a good color and style for the time of year you're having the wedding!!!! Good Luck!!!!
Angela | May 30, 2007 12:41:51 PM
I too, saw this dress on a lot of girls at my niece's grade 8 graduation and dance...
Also - I have to say that while an empire waist IS very elegant, it would be more elegant if it were floorlength. Also - if any of your bridesmaids are on the curvy side, empire waists can be very unforgiving and can give an illusion of erm...pregnancy :P
I know you want a sweet dress that's appropriate for a summer wedding...so why not consider a strapless cocktail length column dress - which looks good on 90% of people, or an A-line with a natural waist which looks good on 99.9% of people? Both are classic and will stand the test of time.
And I may be biased as I happen to hate the colour orange, but if you HAVE to go with orange, how about a pastel tangerine version?
Savannah | May 30, 2007 12:13:14 PM
Please do not pick this color! I just went to a wedding a few weeks ago and the bridesmaids wore this exact dress and color. The groomsmen vests matched as well. It looked like a halloween wedding in the middle of spring. Plus the color looked horrible on everyone!!
maria | May 30, 2007 11:26:34 AM
I like the dress! I like the color! Most seem to hate the color, but I think it's pretty. The bride has to stand out in white. Don't do light pastels for bridesmaids. It's been over done...and the bride ends up blending in with the bridesmaids.
Jan | May 30, 2007 9:53:35 AM
This is real pretty. I just hope you pick a different color.
Deborah | May 30, 2007 9:12:34 AM
Dress is okay if you are having a early day wedding. The color is not very flattering. Have you considered having the dress in a cream color with maybe the band/bow in the "orange-ish" color? then the flowers your girls will be holding wont blend in with the dress... Good luck.
Amy | May 30, 2007 7:59:37 AM
I got married about two years and my bridesmaid wore a dress very similiar, but it was strapless and in red. They absolutely loved it and it flattered everyone who ranged from 5'2 to 5'7. My bridesmaids also had tea length and it looked beautiful, to me, knee length would be a little unclassy. The bridesmaids received so many compliments on the dresses, especially the tea-length. The wedding was in June, and the bridesmaid loved how they didn't have to hurl this big, long dress around, it was free flowing. The color is ok.
ashley | May 29, 2007 11:01:03 PM
love the dress hate the color
Sharon | May 29, 2007 6:26:15 PM
First of all, congrats! I have seen this dress so many times at so many different weddings (or senior/junior proms) - yawn! . Also, bows, ruffles, frills - out! I do like the color but ask yourself, in 10 years when you look back on your photos, are you going to wonder "what was I thinking?" I don't think you have a bad choice, just one that's been used over and over.
beth | May 29, 2007 6:04:47 PM
i used this dress last summer in my wedding (in sage green) and it was a HUGE hit with everyone. It was a hot summer day and no woman wants to wear an ankle length dress to a party! It is simple - therefore, all of the focus is on YOU. However the bow is very flattering, as the A-line looked great on all body types. The bow also adds a bit of classiness to a very simple, yet elegant design. I always think that if there is ANYTHING trendy on a bridesmaids dress - it will usually go out of style and eventually be hated. One of my girls rewore her dress to a new years eve party with a black shall - I was so pleased that she was able to reuse it. GREAT CHOICE. Besides, its your decision girl ;) :D GOOD LUCK! ~beth
Edna Gonzalez | May 29, 2007 4:25:37 PM
It's a really cute dress. The one thing that has always annoyed me about dresses is that people pick out dresses that will look good on only one size. you know what i mean. i personally have big arms and i think my arms would look funny in that dress. that's what i'm trying to say. make sure it's a size apropriate dress. (sorry, i'm a really bad speller)
Lori | May 29, 2007 4:23:22 PM
This is the exact same dress that my daughter-in-law picked for her wedding 2 years ago. Her's were in a beautiful red color. They really did compliment the attendants that were of different body types. The fact that they were not floor length was appreciated by the girls. They got married on the hottest day of the year!
Hannah | May 29, 2007 3:31:17 PM
I think that the dress suits a summer wedding, also the color looks like a summer wedding! The length of the dress is really unique which i like. And you can wear that color dress to more then just that wedding, i mean it is cute and sassy so it would go with other events. But personally this is the brides decison, it is her wedding and it souldn't matter what people who you have never met or never will even see face to face. So if you like the dress go for it.
Kerrie | May 29, 2007 3:12:02 PM
I think it depends on the BM and you. When I was getting married (2 months ago) I had to find dresses that would flatter 4 completely different body types. So what I did was told my BM we would all shop seperately and with some general guideline and the general colors we went from there. All four picked the same dress without knowing it. Two chose a wrap, 1 a jacket and the other had bare shoulders. They had some minor alturations but they were all so proud of how they looked it showed on their faces.
But remember at the day, what they wore and everything else that happens or may go wrong is not going to matter. Because you get to marry the one you love and start your life together. So, if they dont like the dress ask why and if it some sort of crazy reason like it make my nose look big tell me that you like the dress and ask that they support you.
The dress you picked out is very pretty and it can be worn again, hemmed or dyed after the wedding if they want. they can hem it and remove the bow too or even add a wrap or jacket. They all do no have to look alike. It gives your BM's the ability to add their own "spice" to your wedding without taking away from you. You can also suggest that they bring a change of clothes for the reception afterwards.
Best wishes for a life time of happiness!!
Dawn | May 29, 2007 3:07:03 PM
Amy,
First off CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! The dress is very cute. You're a very good person to think about your bridesmaids even though this is your special day.
kara | May 29, 2007 2:56:14 PM
the length is awkward keep it at the knee... just above or just below... otherwise it cuts off at a strange spot... the colour is nice and it will suit any shape maid
if your bridal party is skinny then id suggest same thing but more fitted!!
Selina | May 29, 2007 2:32:28 PM
The dress looks plain. Will need bold accesories or of the sholder scarf. Nice color though.
Debra | May 29, 2007 2:20:54 PM
The style is fine provided everyone is tall and thin. The color is pretty but its not going to allow people to use it again which is a problem if its an expensive dress. Consider using a more neutral color on the dress and use the vibrant colors in your flowers for the girls to carry. That way they have a beautiful dress they can wear again.
Debra | May 29, 2007 2:18:32 PM
The style is fine provided everyone is tall and thin. The color is pretty but its not going to allow people to use it again which is a problem if its an expensive dress. Consider using a more neutral color on the dress and use the vibrant colors in your flowers for the girls to carry. That way they have a beautiful dress they can wear again.
shawn | May 29, 2007 1:56:36 PM
Great dress, wrong color. I would go with a green or lavendar.
Tara | May 29, 2007 1:50:09 PM
I think they are cute...depending on how old your bridesmaids are...if they are young they are great. If they are older.....i think that they are exactly that...cute. I do love the color though.
Ami | May 29, 2007 1:15:37 PM
This is the dress that I am wearing in two weeks, only in black. It is very flattering and I am 36 years old. Unless you have seen it in person and tried it on for yourself, you cannot judge. The picture does not do it justice. The bridesmaids chose this dress together, We are all short, sizes 8, 10 & 12. Biggest problem is in the chest I am a size 8, but my chest is not, so I had to go up a size to get the girls in, and frankly I still look fab....
Lea | May 29, 2007 12:34:25 PM
I think that it is your wedding and you should pick what you want. I can't imagine your bridesmaids would really hate you over a dress. However, if you're really worried about it, you could pick the color and they could pick the style.
Sandy Smith | May 29, 2007 12:14:36 PM
I do not like the dress. To old fashion, and such an ugly color, and extremely frumpy. Let your bridesmaids decide on a dress they like. It's their hard earned money being spent on a dress. Don't let them waste their money on such an ugly dress!!!!!!!!
Christa | May 29, 2007 10:18:31 AM
I had my wedding in August of last year and I actually had my bridesmaids pick out what dresses they liked. We ended up with three that they loved and I told them to narrow it down to one and they did. That is how I avoided them hateing me for the dresses, although they wanted me to make the final decision, I told them they were wearing the dresses so they should like the dress they wear.
DAWN | May 29, 2007 9:59:21 AM
well..........the dress is all-rightish, but the color is awful. don't worry though your friends will still love you after you august wedding, they're just talking about you like crazy behind your back this summer because of that g.d. butt ugly dress they not only have to buy but also wear in public. HAPPY WEDDING DAY
Dragonfly | May 29, 2007 9:18:08 AM
Looking like a pumpkin isn't my idea of flattering. Tea length dresses hit mid-calf, making the legs look even bigger. Floor or knee is most flattering. V-neck is also the most universally flattering neckline. I hate wearing strapless bras, and don't feel very comfortable dancing in them and this dress would need a strapless bra. Just choose a color theme and let your bridesmaids choose their dresses. Let "your" day be perfect with your attitude, not your bridesmaid dresses.
Erin | May 29, 2007 2:07:10 AM
I love the dress, it was the one I originally picked for my own wedding until we decided to do navy blue instead of aqua. The color is aweful. Hardly anyone looks good in this color. If a girl has a slight pink undertone, she'll look so red. Or it could make someone's skin look really orange. Sorry.
Virginia | May 28, 2007 10:11:44 PM
It's a cute dress in a pretty color. Don't worry about it hon, there's just no pleasing some people. Unless you've picked some beyond fugly dress I don't think people have a right to complain. My cousin's wedding was this weekend and his fiancee's bridesmaids were great. She picked champagne colored silk halter dresses that were floor length. She even allowed one of the girls (with an unfortunate back fat problem) to carry a matching wrap. She never even gave the girls a chance to complain. She chose what would go best with her dress and the theme and time of the wedding. After that, she presented it to them and that was that. I plan on doing the same thing. I simply don't want to hear about. Honey, it's your day and you only have to be so considerate. I'm sick to death of bridesmaids carrying on like it's about them. As long as you aren't stuffed in some frilly nightm are from 1985, get over it. What difference does it make if you can wear the dress again? I'm sure there's plenty of crap in these girl's closets that they can't or won't wear again. It's a pretty, tasteful dress in a good color. I say, go for it. Anyone that's going to complain or hold a grudge isn't that great of a friend and probably shouldn't be in your wedding anyway.
Best of luck to you and your future husband!
Angela | May 28, 2007 9:58:17 PM
I believe that the dress style isn't too bad, but the color may not look great on anyone who doesn't have the right skin tone.
You're better off finding a color more widely wearable.
Janice | May 28, 2007 7:31:51 PM
I wore this exact dress to my brothers wedding as a bridesmaid, just in a sage green colour. Its a gorgeous dress, but youve got to change that colour. As a suggestion, it didnt bother me, but the other bridesmaids wished that the dress was closer to knee length, as calf length is a bit awkward looking. So hemming it up 6 inches would make it that much better! Just a thought!
Angel Q Martin | May 28, 2007 6:24:36 PM
You have to remember that this is your day. The bride and grooms, not the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Sure you want them to be comfortable, happy, look nice and like what you do pick out for them, but how many people ever wear bridesmaids dresses after the wedding anyway. I think you have to think about yourself and if this is what you choose if they are real friends then they won't care, they will just be happy for you! I think it is cute. I wouldn't change a thing. You are the one who wants to be noticed and seen not them. It is YOUR wedding day! Congratulations!
Megan | May 28, 2007 6:17:20 PM
my girls wore the same dress in my wedding last year but they wore it in black and i had them all shorten it to knee length. i had bridesmaids of all heights and sizes and it looked great on all of them and they were comfortable. and they all wore black wedges. hope this helps. :)
KFKovach | May 28, 2007 6:17:08 PM
I think the dress is quite lovely. I got married a bit over a year ago and I was terrified of picking out a dress my bridesmaids would like - one a size 2, one a size 12, and one a size 20! The dress you picked would look nice on most, although adding a wrap or seeing if sleeves can be added by the seamstress at the bridal shop (which is what my sister asked for since she was larger than the other attendants and it looked fine). The color is very "in" right now - and if you like it and it goes with your floral color scheme, it's fine. It is, after all, YOUR day, and it certainly does not qualify for the bridesmaid dress hall of shame!!
Best of luck to you.
Rita | May 28, 2007 4:24:39 PM
Hi
The dress is a little out dated. I think you should make it a tube dress and maybe more tapered. Almost like a cocktail dress. The colour needs to be changed as well.
Kristin | May 28, 2007 2:44:37 PM
I think that you need to be very slender in order to make it work. If you are too busty it will look like a maternity dress.
Elisabeth | May 28, 2007 1:55:17 PM
Who wants to be "Adorable" and "Cute" when you're over twelve? A-Line is very flattering on most women, however the straight neckline and thin straps are not attractive on quite a few women, the colour, while not bad is not going to be flattering on everyone, bows went out in the 80's. This is a dress that can only be worn again at a garden party, at best. I can't imagine anyone chic wearing this out at night. 'Fraid this one is going to go down in the bridemaid's hall of ouch in a few years.
Lyn | May 28, 2007 1:51:55 PM
Love the dress. Don't worry about it. You just need to ask what your girls think. Personally, especially for August, I think it's the perfect dress. Bow and all.
mia | May 28, 2007 10:11:40 AM
Love the dress..hate the color. Too many people don't look good in orange
Slim chic | May 28, 2007 9:40:04 AM
The dress seems a bit juvenile to me. it could work if your bridesmaids are up to about 16/ 17 years, but if older and they have a fuller figure i suggest a different dress.
Best Wishes
catherine | May 28, 2007 5:58:53 AM
well i belive that yes the bride has to be the prettyest in the ball but please this dress is too last season at least get something that the bridesmaid would be happy to wear i dont think u want ur freinds to remember your wedding as the worst dressed day! right????
i mean they might get revenge on you on their wedding and making u wear something worse..
congradulations on your wedding =)
Nathalie | May 28, 2007 12:05:02 AM
One last suggestions maybe picking the dress out with your bridesmaids would be a good idea too. You would have final say, of course, but you could ge their ideas and not feel alone in dealing with this. As long as everyone behaved fairly and cooperated, it could be a fun girls night or daytime outing. Let your friends help you, that's why you have bridesmaids; for support!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
Nathalie | May 27, 2007 11:58:36 PM
Dear Amy,
Your wedding day is a celebration for you and your future husband; you are celebrating your love before family and friends who are lucky to be invited to such a special event. Just remember that a true friend would not complain about a bridesmaid dress unless you were trying to make them look bad or feel uncomfortable. Clearly you care about how your bridesmaids feel so they should be very grateful because you obviously have a lot of other things to deal with since you are planning your wedding. Your wedding will be a beautiful memory as long as you cherish what matters... the love... not the small little details. You can try to make everything perfect but it is the attitude you take on that will determine if the day is a success. Relax, breath and just enjoy it be thankful that you have found the greatest gift of all... a love to last a lifetime, that is so much more important than a dress.
As for the dress I think it is very pretty, the style is elegant and classic (it makes me think of Audrey Hepburn).The only thing I might suggest since you seem to want suggestions is that perhaps you might consider some other colors just to make sure you are truly happy with it. Here are some ideas (imagine pictures of you in your dress with your husband with the bridesmaids in their dresses what colors would look nicest with there skin tone and in the whole color scheme of the wedding). Since they will be in pictures with you the color of the bridesmaid dress should play of your colorings nicely too, like if a girl is sitting in a field of flowers some colors would look nicer as a background than others (depending on her style, skin, and hair color). Here are some other ideas; baby blue, aqua, yellow (perhaps a nice buttercup color), purple, dusty rose, blush pink, lavender, mint green, teal, royal blue, navy blue. My feeling is that the color you picked is not a true classic and you will be looking at these pictures 20 years later, is it a color you can imagine enjoying in the future too? I went to a wedding 10 years ago and the bridesmaids wore pastel pink in a similar style of dress, it's still a stylish color today and is such a flattering color on all skin tones.
Either way I wish you all the best for your special day. Everyone will be looking at you so don't stress too much about the bridesmaid dresses. I think your bridesmaids are lucky to have such a caring bride.
Bess | May 27, 2007 11:54:28 PM
Love the dress except the bow has got to go! And surely there is another color that would be more universally flattering!
Melanie | May 27, 2007 11:31:28 PM
I like the dress itself, but get rid of the bow in front and pick a different color. Congratulations to you and your soon to be husband.
Clarishi | May 27, 2007 9:11:44 PM
I think the dress is lovely! I love the colour too. I think both the hemline and the colour will flatter any type of body/skin
Congrats on your wedding!!
Liz | May 27, 2007 5:40:24 PM
I love the dress, but not so much the color. If you have really tan bridesmaids this might work. Otherwise they are just going to feel like big pumpkins in this! I got married a few months ago and I let my bridesmaids pick out their dresses, and they chose the same dress that you have picked out! They are really cute on.
Claire | May 27, 2007 4:52:17 PM
i think they r fantastic!!! just make sure that they r flattering on all ur bridesmaids
Claire | May 27, 2007 4:51:48 PM
i think they r fantastic!!! just make sure that they r flattering on all ur bridesmaids
teresa | May 27, 2007 3:32:30 PM
I love the color and the cut. It looks mid-century modern, and I love that era.
Lucy | May 27, 2007 12:26:29 PM
I wore this dress in a aqua color for a beach wedding about a month ago and it was great! Perfect length and was very comfortable. The only thing I might suggest is to have them take up the top slightly...it can be a little revealing.
Have a great day and remember it is about you and not them. DO what makes you happy!!!
LAURA | May 27, 2007 11:58:56 AM
Love the style, hate the color.
Gracia | May 27, 2007 11:05:50 AM
I think the dress is lovely-- I'm not loving the color, though. There are VERY few people who look good in the color-- You should go with a blue or pink.
Maria | May 27, 2007 2:19:26 AM
It's just ok. Lose the straps, and replace the bow with a crystal pin of some type.
Now the Bride | May 27, 2007 1:00:32 AM
As a past maid of honor and bridesmaid...I swore I would never have my Maids dread the one day that meant the world to me...so I picked the "round about color" and let them pick the shape and design of the dress that flattered their figure. It was a beautiful wedding and my maids could not have been happier! It saved money, too. They got to pick out the dress at the expense they wanted, not the dress "I" wanted. My friends come in all different shapes and breast size...think about how happy and comfortable you will be on your big day...you won't have to worry about how they will feel about the dress, that's a sign that you need to let them choose the dress that will flatter their figure...you have too much to worry about as it is...good luck!
Elizabeth knight | May 27, 2007 12:11:59 AM
if you want a bold color such as that dress i would high light it in your floral arangments and use a more suttle color for your girls. plus always keep in mind your girls skin tones, body shapes and hair colors. the dress may be good in theory but how will it express itself in the wedding photos? best way to go is take your girls though a trial run see what makes them feel attractive, women beam whan they feel pretty not uncomfertable.
becky | May 26, 2007 10:47:56 PM
the truth of the matter is, it's your wedding and if your bridemaids are your friends then they will suck it up for a day to make YOU happy on whats supposed to be the happiest day of YOUR life. Don't worry so much about pleasing other people, its your day.
jill | May 26, 2007 8:07:43 PM
my bridemaids are wearing this dress in my wedding in june they all look so nice in it, it fits everybody type trust me.
Tamara | May 26, 2007 7:24:29 PM
I work for a catering company and witness many weddings. I've noticed that weddings seem classier and more modern when the bridesmaids wear more neutral colors. A bright color just stands out too much and looks cheap. Also, I agree that giving your bridesmaids a color then letting them choose their own styles is a great idea. Try J. Crew online. They have numerous styles in the same fabrics and colors. I think that it's best to customize the straps, waistlines, and lengths for each girl, and J. Crew lets you do that.
Tamara | May 26, 2007 7:20:52 PM
I work for a catering company and witness many weddings. I've noticed that weddings seem classier and more modern when the bridesmaids wear more neutral colors. A bright color just stands out too much and looks cheap. Also, I agree that giving your bridesmaids a color then letting them choose their own styles is a great idea. Try J. Crew online. They have numerous styles in the same fabrics and colors. I think that it's best to customize the straps, waistlines, and lengths for each girl, and J. Crew lets you do that.
Jigglypuff | May 26, 2007 6:10:53 PM
I like the cut, but I suggest you change it to a ivory white or platinium gray. It would work better in neutral tone with different accessories. If a bridesmaid is really busty, try changing the neckline from a spagetti strap to a halter to better support the extra clevage she has. Another idea would be to hem it to knee-length so the bridesmaid wouldn't look stumpy, unless she is tall and built like a stick.
alicia long | May 26, 2007 4:21:15 PM
the dress is not what I would pick but if thats what you wont go for it.
Tinley M. | May 26, 2007 4:04:50 PM
the dress is cute but i'm not a fan of the colour, it would look cute in black or grey or red or something else standard and classic
always a bridesmaid | May 26, 2007 3:11:31 PM
I had to wear a similar dress for a wedding. It was an ok dress, color is ok, but be careful of pit stains. If you want your bridesmaids to be able to wear it again get it in another color.
Alex Richards | May 26, 2007 3:09:45 PM
Hmmm... It's cute for a Bridesmaid dress... but my goal was to pick a dress that they could wear again, and not be branded as a "bridesmaid dress." My maid of honor picked the dresses out, and she got a really cute bubble hem dress from Tibi. It's totally NOT bridesmaidy, and they can absolutely wear it again to a cocktail party or something. I am just sick of "samey" taffeta and satin dresses. Girls want to look more unique, right?
Tessa | May 26, 2007 2:25:46 PM
I like the style, but the color I am not too sure about. I think it would look good in maybe a black or deep red.
shell | May 26, 2007 12:24:40 PM
im now engaged to be married some time early next year and am finding myself with all kinds of questions and concerns. ill tell you this much, from being a bridesmais twice and made of honour once..its true, the dress will never again be worn..unless its some type of cocktail wear, which you dont want to do!
as far asd the dress youve picked so far..
the color is different, not my personal taste but if tahts the color theme yur going for then YOUR opinion alone is the only one that matters..but the style..NOOO!!
another blogger said it best..
these are women, not your nieces your trying to fit into the wedding party.
the high cut straight across is a bit audrey hepurn..but..indeed that look is in style right now, but none the less, maybe not the right occasion?
the bow is childish, and the lenghth, maybe for an evening wedding or maybe in march?
you must remember this is an august wedding..its gonna be hottt, the shoes you picked will hurt the crap out the womens feet once they get all sweaty and you know they will, if your set on the shoues make sure to take along band aids!
i guess after all this the biggest piece of advise i have is maybe you go ahead and pick your color, and go with the ladies in your party to one store i suggest davids bridal if you have one near enough, they have a big selection of dresses for your wedding party all in the same color.
let them pick their dresses with your approval of course.
every women is a different shape, theyll feel more secure this way, and wont stress about how they look and therefor you wont stress on your wedding day!
as much as the day is about you..their moods, and attitudes will affect your good time!!
have a wonderful wedding, and be secure your gonna be beautiful and have a day youll never forget.
Jill | May 26, 2007 11:19:20 AM
I had to wear that dress in lilac. I liked it but a lot of the others girls didn't because of the tea-length. Unless all of you bridesmaids are the same height the dresses are going to look a little strange in the pictures because either the hems all match and some girls are wearing full length or each on is 3 inches down from the knee and none of them are going to line up. It was an amazing comfortable dress but I would choose another one if you are going to have more than 2 or 3 bridesmaids.
Emm | May 26, 2007 10:47:33 AM
It's a nice dress but if your brides maides are plus size (like me) there going to look preggers and the straps might make them feel self consious. Empire waist don't usually look good on anyone but skinny small busted women.
Toni A. | May 26, 2007 9:11:15 AM
Although it is your wedding day, you don't want your friends to be uncomfortable all day in ugly dresses. The dress is ok, but the color is horrible.I picked the color for my bridesmaids and I let them pick their favorite dress from three or four I had selected. It makes for a much better day for everyone. Best of Luck.
nhana | May 26, 2007 5:47:28 AM
The color is not very flattering - and definitly not a color for a wedding. The design of the dress is cute but it depends on how old your bridesmaides are? if they are in their 20's then it's ok, but I know that my mom wouldn't be very pleased to wear a dress like that. Hope you figure it out and have a wonderfull wedding!
Luella | May 26, 2007 1:59:57 AM
Wow... I have honestly never seen this shade of orange before. I didn't even know that was a color. Okay, if I were you hon, I would not go that direction. I would lose the little bow and have the dress be cut off at the knee or ground. Because when it ends mid-leg like that, it gives the illution that your legg is fatter. Because tea length? *gag* I hope the fabric looks better too.
stephanie | May 26, 2007 12:45:16 AM
this dress is wonderful and u can't take off the bow because the dress is made with the bow on it and the color is not that bright just look at the model wearing it on the davids bridal website. It will work on different shapes of women very well considering my cousin's wife picked this dress for her october 06 wedding and they were in black and they looked very flattering on every shape of her bridesmaids and the material isnt stiff at all cause i borrowed one of the girls' dresses to wear to a formal dinner and it was very comfortable and im 5'4 and i didnt feel short or stumpy in it at all just and some good comfortable high heels that have a comfortable heel that isnt to skinny that u worry about it breaking or too tall that u worry about tripping or falling down especially if u have to walk up and down stairs. Plus if the straps bother u its an easy fix just to tuck them down into the dress so it looks strapless after the wedding and pictures are done that will make it easy for u to dance in and if they wedding is during a cold suggest a shawl or maybe a little jacket that goes with the color of the dress.
linda | May 26, 2007 12:37:35 AM
why not pick out material for your bridesmaids and let them choose the pattern? then each bridesmaid can wear a dress that suits her figure and taste so it can be worn again and won't be a waste of money. i would hate to make my friends waste their money. it's selfish.
Kaillee | May 26, 2007 12:12:29 AM
The dress is not too bad. The color, well....it leaves a LOT to be desired. There are very few colorings it will compliment and most others it will just make look sickly.
Something else to consider, what are the body types of the bridesmaids ? This will look good on thin girls who are at very least average height, but will shorten a smaller girl.It will also add of pounds to a chunky or heavier girl. 'Average' size girls may do alright, but any one busty or big boned may not be too comfortable in this dress. It's a really hard balance, but something to remember is that something with such a high waist is really meant compliment a tall thin frame. Anyone too outside of that is likely to look at very least a bit awkward .
Dawn | May 25, 2007 11:09:27 PM
I think it is a great dress and the color you choose for it should match your color scheme, regardless of what others think about the orange/red. They'll have to deal with it. I think it is a lovely pattern and will flatter most body types. Choose what you want! (Although I see the point on the bow).
Have a great wedding!
lori | May 25, 2007 10:50:57 PM
Dear Bride-to-be....please don't concern yourself with what
others think. Be honest with yourself, do what you'd prefer. No matter what you decide in any aspect re wedding
arrangements be it meal (sitdown vs. buffet) or music
selection (guests request vs. your personal taste), etc....
well, doing what you'd prefer for your wedding day should take the lead. I never cared for any dresses I wore to be
a bridesmaid HOWEVER I went along with what the bride wanted because it was HER DAY. And you only go around once
(well, okay, I'm old-fashioned...being a bride, in my book,
is a one-time happening!). Sincerely wish you the best.
lorraine | May 25, 2007 10:43:19 PM
It's your wedding day, don't concern yourself with any
'what if's'. No matter what you select: from difference
between buffet to sit-down, color of dresses, etc., you
should concern yourself with your opinion only. You can't
worry what anyone will think. It's a one time happening (or
it should be!), so do what your heart tells you and smile.
Best wishes.
Kristyn | May 25, 2007 10:41:52 PM
I think this dress is beautifully cut...It's a classic...Not really diggin the orange color though...
kiki | May 25, 2007 10:40:41 PM
It looks too junior prom-ish.
Ellen | May 25, 2007 9:42:49 PM
Don't like the dress or the color. I went to a fall wedding last year & the bride had brown as the color for the bridesmaids. Each bridesmaid picked out her own unique dress-they were all long & the same color, but each was a totally different style. It was the most lovely wedding line I have ever seen. They were also styles that could be worn again & each girl was extremely happy with their choices (including the bride).
TP | May 25, 2007 9:39:41 PM
I think I wore this same bridesmaid dress only in black at a friends wedding. In comparison to other dresses I've worn it was by far the best but I still never wore it again. To all brides, please please please move away from the prom dress satin material as its tacky and looks cheap no matter what. Try to pick a dress that the bridesmaid might consider wearing again. The good karma will come around when you are the bridesmaid.
jodi | May 25, 2007 8:51:09 PM
The dress is super cute! I think it would be even better if the belt trim was in a contrasting color to add a little pizzaz and so shoes and accessories are easier to match.
College Student | May 25, 2007 8:30:13 PM
No Bow. The Bow makes it look like a five year old is going to wear it.
lauren | May 25, 2007 8:26:16 PM
The dress is very David's Bridal (read: looks cheap). Try to find something a little more Vera Wang.
Liz | May 25, 2007 8:22:17 PM
No, no, no. The color is horrendous. Give your gals something they can wear again. Even an autumn brown or a black would work. Orange looks horrible on most people. The style is adorable though!
Heather | May 25, 2007 8:20:53 PM
Actually, this is the dress I chose for my wedding last year. I chose black. Both of my bridesmaids have worn the dresses to parties and weddings beyond mine. They were very appreciative of the style, cut, and color I chose. One bridesmaid was larger than she'd wanted to be, but in this dress she looked great since the cut is flattering and not "clingy". I searched for a long time for dresses, but ultimately I let them choose. They chose this!
Kara | May 25, 2007 8:04:10 PM
I like the dress. I am not a huge bow fan and I still think this is cute. I am not sure this color is what I would call orange -if it is truly orange I don't like the color. But, if it is something like coral I think it is great for an August wedding. Good luck!!!
Arleen | May 25, 2007 7:56:20 PM
Love the cut - it's timeless. Love also the orange. Recommend a spray tan if your bridesmaids are too pale to pull of this vibrant, positive color. The bow - I would go without but it is all a matter of taste.
Overall - you'll have a great, fun wedding and your bridesmaids will look stunning - with or without the bow!!
angie | May 25, 2007 7:37:02 PM
Just make sure your girls have a nice tan!
elizabeth | May 25, 2007 7:18:12 PM
In my opinion, the dress is not a good choice. The color is an even worse choice. Go with something that is classic and will stand the test of time. Keep hair and make-up simple too. Do not be trendy. That is some of the problem with the ugly dresses. They are so trendy that in 10 years time--they look terrible. Get rid of the dress...
elizabeth
Taylor Rae | May 25, 2007 6:56:58 PM
I acctually like it and think it's appropriate for an august wedding. Though I think you should ask your bridesmaids and get their TRUTHFUL opinion. Don't just let them say yes because you're the bride. That shape dress might not look good on all of your bridesmaids. truthfully I think maybe less of an a-line and floor-legth is the best way to go.
V~ | May 25, 2007 6:43:20 PM
I think the dress is great. I just got married in March of this year.. The biggest thing for you to remember is that; it is your day and your brides mades and matrons are there for you. AND IF THEY DONT KNOW THAT, SOMEONE NEEDS TO TELL THEM FAST! Have a wonderfull wedding.
Anna | May 25, 2007 6:37:39 PM
The only real problems with this dress are the color and the length. I'm sorry, it is a nice color for a huge fashion statement, but for a wedding I fear that it would just look atrocious. As for the length, this is a really cute, fresh style that is very popular right now, but it can only be properly acheived with the right length. Shorten it to about knee-length or slightly longer.
And with that, I don't think you need to worry about finding any of your bridesmaids pictures on here in that dress. :)
astoreri | May 25, 2007 6:35:56 PM
The bottom line with bridesmaid dresses is that you NEVER going to find a dress that will look good on everyone and that everyone will be happy with.
When I get married I'll pick the colour and then let my girls choose the style of dress that they want. Of course I'll have a veto vote if I really can't stand the style. But I don't want to force someone to wear something they aren't happy about.
As for the dress you picked, meh, its okay but it isn't great. And I really don't think it will be flattering on eveyone. Empire waists are tricky to pull off, if you have even a bit of a tummy you look pregnant.
And tea length is also really hard to look good, especially if you are petite.
Personally I think bridesmaids dresses should either be floor length or knee length (I'd personally go for knee length as it is more practical).
Shaylyn | May 25, 2007 6:29:13 PM
I am getting married in November and I swear picking out my bridemaids dresses was harder than picking out my own wedding dress. Its hard to try and find the perfect dress for 4 or 5 different body types. I like the color of your dress but I agree that maybe shortening it to a tea length right at the knee might bring it a little more up to date. or making it strapless. But in the end whatever makes you happy is what you should do. Your bridesmaids understand that its a bridesmaid's dress.
Karen | May 25, 2007 6:18:32 PM
I think it's cute, but I'm not fond of the bow. Also, it looks like it requires some pretty good body types in order to pull it off. I'd be very uncomfortable with that much of my chest and arms exposed.
Jen | May 25, 2007 5:58:05 PM
Considering this is a wedding in auguest I would consider making the dresses shorter. The length, well is just unattractive to begin with, I would recommend possibly making the dresses more fitted to give the bridesmaids a more fitted overall look I mean it is your day but a bridesmaid wants to look sexy too, you know!.The color is very august just PLEASE fix the shape and length of the dress.
Lin | May 25, 2007 5:38:56 PM
It looks too immature with the bow in the middle. Color is okay for summer, maybe fall. If the bow were on the side, it would be better.
sarah | May 25, 2007 5:33:05 PM
horrible
charisse | May 25, 2007 5:31:59 PM
the dress is awful..the cut is for old times and the dress is just boring..find something classy and chic and forgive me but the color is unforgivable
Kris | May 25, 2007 5:27:56 PM
The dress above actually looks like the one my best friend chose for us to wear. Except it was black. She did a great job selecting this type because I have worn the dress twice since her wedding.
Lisa | May 25, 2007 5:27:56 PM
It's a very pretty dress that will lend itself well to many different body types. The summer color will also let the girls wear it for other occassions - shorten it, put a different sash on it and you'd have a really cute party dress.
KRISTI | May 25, 2007 5:27:14 PM
I WORE THIS DRESS IN RED FOR A WEDDING LAST YEAR AND WOULD NOT HAVE PICKED IT FOR MYSELF! I AM A 25 YEAR OLD WOMAN WHO FELT LIKE SHE SHOULD BE GOING TO A JR HIGH SCHOOL DANCE. THE TEA LENGTH AND BOW GIVE IT A VERY YOUNG FEEL. WOULD LOOK GREAT ON A JUNIOR BRIDESMAID OR FLOWER GIRL.
Tara | May 25, 2007 5:27:09 PM
I think everyone's freaking out a little bit, maybe overanalyzing??? I think the color is very unique and I think the dresses are adorable. It's a very nice, modern cut, and I think the tea length style is definitely "in" this year. As long as your bridesmaids are ok, go for it! Good luck with everything, hon, and enjoy your days!
Andrea | May 25, 2007 5:27:04 PM
I like it....but helloooo....ITS YOUR WEDDING! The bridesmaids aren't there for a fashion show or prom, they are there to support you because they're your friends. It's not like you're making them wear a mumu or a skimpy night gown. Go with what makes YOU happy!
Wisconsin Housewife | May 25, 2007 5:07:03 PM
I think the dress itself is beautiful, but the color is pretty awful. I would wear the dress happily if my friend were the bride, but I would not wear it again after that. If it were a color that could be mixed and matched with different shoes, jewelry and wraps, and were more timeless, I would wear it to everything - it's a style that will not go out of fashion.
KHM | May 25, 2007 5:02:40 PM
Dear lord, what happened to living in the 21st century? I love the orange color and used it for my wedding 6 months ago so no problem with the color - as long as it's for your flowers. But what is the deal with making bridesmaids look like their 12??? Ditch the bow, the cutsie little-girl dress and give them something to wear that makes them look like their women, not girls. We're not living in the 1800's anymore and it's not about having "maids" for your attendants. It's a hard thing to do to let go but if you love your friends, let them choose. I let my bridesmaids choose their dresses - any style they wanted, any color. They all chose basic black in styles that flattered each figure. They held orange calla lillies and looked unbelievably classy - understated elegance.
Catherine | May 25, 2007 4:56:34 PM
Both the color and the length are not so great. Maybe a different color and have it hemmed to knee length?
Don't even concern yourself about "something they can wear again" since, no matter what you pick, it will still look like a bridesmaid dress and they will never wear it again.
Lauren | May 25, 2007 4:45:05 PM
The dress itself is cute. It has a classic cut and could actually be worn again (unlike most bridesmaid dresses). Also, with an A line cut it will look go on almost every body type which is an added bonus since no bridesmaid wants to feel fat. A bright color is a great way to go for a summer wedding, but I would not go with orange. Orange is not the most flattering color on most skin tones.
Good luck!
Meredith | May 25, 2007 4:37:48 PM
It's a great dress and colour. My wedding was in September and chose burnt orange. The dress is adorable and suits most body types. My bridesmaid dresses were from the same designer, line and colour but they were all different styles. I suggest you let your bridesmaids change the length. You can have a length limit, ie. at least 1 inch below the knee but sometimes longer dresses look nicer depending on the body type.
Amy | May 25, 2007 4:31:37 PM
Not crazy about the straps...or the bow...or the color. I would wear that dress in strapless, bow-less black. If I had to wear it as is, I would not be very happy with you. I think the basic pattern is very pretty. You are on the right track. If your bridesmaids look like cupcakes- or a dessert of any sort for that matter- you may want to think again.
ymichelle | May 25, 2007 4:19:13 PM
First question - is this your color of choice?? If so , then unless your bridemaids have really good skin tones, this color of orange may not be appealing and to further answer your question, the dress itself is not a bad style, albeit a little young and a little un-flattering, (not to mention - this picture is not helping). However with that said, as a former bride you always want to make sure everyone one is pleased with your choices, BUT, there is no way on earth that everyone is going to be pleased with the dress you picked or whatever... sorry it comes with the territory :), so if you feel and want this dress, then they have to suck it up - grin and bear it, that's what friends/family are supposed to do - this is your day to enjoy - good luck!!!
Kamia | May 25, 2007 4:08:25 PM
The bow ruins it for me.
Michelle | May 25, 2007 3:51:35 PM
Hi...
I like it. And it's a reason why you're wondering about it, you kind of like it, but you're afraid of other peoples opinion.
I think you should keep it for your bridesmaids, maybe change colour or lenght and see how it ends up, if you're too unshore..
Allyson | May 25, 2007 3:40:01 PM
If you don't want your bridesmaids hating you for making them wear something hideous, why don't you take them shopping with you? At least then you can compromise on something that will make everyone happy (including you) and you'll still come out knowing you're the best dressed there. :) It will also give you and the bridesmaids a chance to bond and have fun being "girls".